10/25/11

Carrega's Corner: Nail Chip.. No More?

By: Christina Carrega 


I tried the Shellac UV Gel Manicure about two weeks ago just to see if it lasted as long as it has advertised and I'm glad to report that it does!

With all of the gels, mousses, conditioners and shampoos we use with natural or permed hair we know how quickly a manicure can be ruined days after because we had to wash and style our own hair.

With the CND line of gel manicure polishes, I was able to frequently wash and style my hair as well as clean my house with chemical-based household products without a break or chip of the polish.

This new technique for the busy-everyday woman, reminds me of the acrylic tips I use to get back in high school. The only difference is, it doesn't weaken the nails.

It does, however, lose the color as the nail grows and if your nail chips the polish remains its shape until it is removed. I would not recommend trimming or filing the nail if it does happen to crack because the rest of the polish begins to crack as well and its not a good look.

After 15 days, and not to mention a vacation in between where I was in chlorine and sea water, I just got a refresher manicure and decided to be festive in the fall and get the hot pink color.

You're nails dry in 360 seconds on each hand!

The way the process goes is, the nail technician gives you a classic manicure, afterwards, he or she places the gel base coat on each hand. When one hand is finished it is placed into a UV lighted oven-like machine for approximately 90 seconds. When the light goes out, the first coat of which ever color you chose goes on and your hand goes back into the machine for another 90 seconds.

The technician I went to says that this is how the gel is dried "super fast" unlike a regular manicure when you have to sit under the mini-drier for 15 minutes for it to be completely dry.

The second coat is places on the nails and after another 90 seconds the final placement of the top-gel polish is added. Another 90 seconds later you're done and ready to go about your day.

The Shellac Manicure could run you from $17 to $40.

What do you think, is it worth the money?



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Carrega's Corner: Humidity Got Me!

By: Christina Carrega

On vacation with natural hair, my ultimate fail.

Most people would think this is the easiest type of hair to deal with because it doesn't mind jumping in the water and or doing the "wet and go" look everyday.

But, silly, unfortunate, me I went to a very humid island without any of my anti-humidity conditioners! So even when I set my hair into the double strand twist with the Miss Jessie's Curling Pudding or Baby Butter, the humidity attacked it and made my locks lay flat as a pancake. I even thought my Tresseme hair gel was going to rescue me, but it got too sticky and practically pulled my hair out after a long day.

I was upset until I looked for my hair accessories.

Flower clips, head ties and huge buns helped me get through the vacation.

I learned for future trips to squeeze a good amount of any of the Garnier Anti-Humidity products into a 3 ounce bottle. Or try to get sample packs like I did for the Miss. Jessie's items.

What other styles, techniques or products do you try to bring with you when you're miles away on vacay?



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10/24/11

C is for Cultured Giveaway!


So Ava of C is for Cultured decided to host a giveaway exclusively through Party Over Hair in celebration of her newly launched Etsy store! I have this thing about wearing jewelry, so I haven't been sporting any cool beaded bracelets -- but after seeing Ava's latest creations, my mind just may change. So in this Giveaway, six lucky winners (within the US) can win their choice of one of the jade, red agate, white agate, and blue carnelian agate with a gold plated feather and gold space beads. Once again, the rules are simple:

1. Must be subscribed to the Party Over Hair blog.

2. Follow both @CisforCultured & @PartyOverHair on Twitter.

3. Tweet "I'm a culture(d). individual" to @CisforCultured.

4. Leave name & email address in the comment box, along with your favorite item in the Etsy shop: CisforCultured.etsy.com

Contest will end at 12PM EST on Monday, October 31, 2011. Ava will select a winner at random using random.org. Best of luck! 


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CurlyNikki's NYC Meet Up!


On Thursday, my best friend Shayna and I headed to the Carlton Hotel for CurlyNikki's first NYC Meet Up. Honestly, I was very nervous since this was my first time attending a meet up since I not only started Party Over Hair, but went natural so I didn't really know what to expect. Plus, I was so nervous that I walked out the house without my Canon, so all pictures were taken from my iPhone. 





Nonetheless, by the time we got there & got inside I was completely impressed with the turn out -- us NYC Naturals managed to have the Carlton Hotel packed! We mingled around the crowd, met some new Curlfriends, handed some Party Over Hair cards -- but most importantly, I got to finally meet Curly Nikki! For the few seconds I did get to speak with her, she was sooo nice! So glad that I finally got to meet one of my inspirations.


Shayna & I walked around looking at all the wonderful hair presentations the Mizani stylists doing & I have so say all the styles were absolutely gorgeous. I'm definitely excited to try out their new product line: True Textures. Unfortunately, we didn't stay until 10PM--since I still had a bunch of design work to finish at home--but the time that we were there, we definitely enjoyed ourselves. Plus, we left with a complimentary Mizani goodie bag with samples of their new True Textures products that I cannot wait to try!


So, who was there? Did you enjoy yourselves? Have you tried the Mizani samples yet? 

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Carol's Daughter's New Chocolat Smoothing Collection


Last week, Carol's Daughter introduced their new Chocolat Smoothing Collection at Godiva in New York City. The collection is the company's first line of products dedicated to hair straightening. These products couldn't come at a better time, as the colder months are approaching us & I know this is when a lot of natural consider straightening their hair.

The 3-step collection of sulfate-free products is designed to physically rebuild the hair structure from the inside out. Whether you have natural or relaxed hair, the products are said to work on all types of hair. The Chocolat collection uses the power of the Cacao bean to actually soften, smooth and rebuild hair when blowdrying straight. The Cacao, combined with a special plant protien called Keravis, smooths the cuticle layers from the outside, protects against heat styling damage and rebuilds hair's structure from the inside.

According to Carol's Daughter, the Chocolat Collection builds impossibly smooth hair that lasts.. and lasts. This collection straightens out all your frizzy situations--from overheating to over-treating. Its main ingredient Cacao, the pure form of cocoa, is the sweetest thing your hair will ever experience because its intensity smoothes and rebuilds your hair's structure, naturally, giving it a silky-sleek finish that won't flyaway.

For $54, you can purchase the set that includes: Smoothing Shampoo, 8.5 oz, Smoothing Conditioner, 8.5 oz and Smoothing Blow Dry Cream, 3.9 oz.

Would you consider using the Chocolat Smoothing Collection for straightening your hair this Fall/Winter? 


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10/21/11

Honey B. Natural: A Conversation on Kinks, Coils & Curls


Hello ladies!

I would like to thank you all for hanging in there with me as I haven't been able to blog as much as I wanted to lately. I work as an Art Director for an art school in NYC so as of lately all my time has been going to them. Nonetheless, I'm trying to find the proper balance between my work life & blogging life so please continue to hang in there with me as I have so much wonderful things planned for Party Over Hair in the near future! So once again, thank you to all my supporters & readers!

Now, yesterday upon leaving CurlyNikki's Meet Up I ran into Kris & Emijaa of Honey B. Creations. The ladies shared with me that they are having a wonderful panel discussion this Saturday. So any of my NYC ladies, if you're not busy I'd suggest definitely stopping by. Kris sent me an email to share with you ladies:

Greetings natural beauties!
This is a friendly reminder to join us for, Honey B. Natural: A Conversation on Kinks, Coils & Curls this Saturday, October 22nd from 7:30-10:30pm (registration opens at 7:00pm).

The evening will include a diverse panel of notable women in the natural hair community, a mini-hair show, a product swap, refreshments, gift bags and more!

Visit our website www.honeybcreations.com for more details. Bring your girls! You can purchase tickets at: http://honeybnatural.eventbrite.com.  $15 in advance / $20 at the door.

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10/14/11

Hair Q&A: When Is It Time To Get A Trim?



Q: How do you know when it's time to get a trim? 


A: Some say every 6 to 8 weeks, other say as long as 6 months to a year. Honestly, you'll have to judge it for yourself. I have only had my hair trimmed once thus far in my 6 months of being natural. So I honestly would recommend looking at the state in which your hair is in to determine if it's time for a time. Signs that you may need a trim could include anything from rough ends to split ends to breakage. 


How do you know when it's time for a trim? 


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10/13/11

Going Natural: Aitza Briauna's Hair Journey


Hi Curlies, I'm Aitza Briauna and I'm a 17 year old high school junior. I'm originally from Orlando, FL but currently live in the Raleigh, NC area. I am of Dominican (West Indies), Native America (Black Foot Nation), German and Irish descent and consider myself to be multicultural/ethnic/racial or a mutt, LOL! I love reading, writing, baking, music, food and all things Grey's Anatomy. I have big dreams and aspire to be an anesthesiologist! 

You can find me online, my username are: babycakesbriauna (YT, CurlyNikki & NaturallyCurly) & babycakebriauna (Twitter). My blog is babycakesbriauna.blogspot.com

How long have you been natural?
I've been naturally basically all my life. I don't use the hair typing system, instead I describe Bree as being kinky curly, thick and coarse--so you can get an idea of what I've been working with all these years. My dad allowed be to get a Just for Me at the age 3 which didn't take. Then I received a texturizer at age 9 which also did nothing to my curls, it just cut down on my detangling time. Aside from that no chemicals have touched this head.

Why did you choose to go natural?
I chose to stay natural because I didn't see the use for relaxers. I went through a phase when I first moved to Raleigh where I wanted one and my mom was like "Fine you can one but when all your hair falls out, I don't want to hear you mouth." After that I was over getting a relaxer. Sure I had seen some people with long, relaxed hair but they seemed to be a rare breed. I didn't want to risk my hair. Up until the Thanksgiving of last year I only wore my hair out in the summer. I found it to be more convenient to wear braids or twists during the school year. It was a wake up and go style that allowed be to sleep longer in the mornings--which I loved


What's your hair regiment?
I don't really have a regiment, I just go with the flow. If Bree feels dirty, I wash her. If she feels dry, I condition. I'm all for keeping things simple. At this point in my life when I dealing with choosing colleges, volunteering, applying for internships, staying on honor roll and just being a teenage female I have more important things to stress about than my hair. 

I usually wash once or twice within a 14 day period depending on what styles I've been sporting and the products I've been using. I shampoo and condition with either Creme of Nature or Elasta QP. My leave in varies froom Elasta QP, Garnier Fructis, and Shea Moisture. My stylers and moisturizers consist of KCCC, KCSS, Eco Styler Argan, One Bottle 6n1, AVG, Curls Control Pasta and Shea Moisture Smoothie. I use EVOO, coconut oil, sweet almond oil, and tea tree oil. From time to time I'll use B&B oil grease. I detangle on damp hair before my shampoo and section the hair in four sections. Then I condition, DC, and style. In the summer I usually plait my hair and air dry; however, my hair takes forever to dry so I'll more than likely blowdry in the winter. Braid outs, twist outs, bantu knot outs, and buns/puffs are my usual styles. They're easy to accomplish and I get consistent results.


What's the best thing about being natural?
The best thing about being natural is that I have so much versatility. On day I can be rocking a fro, the next a braid out, then I may decide I want it straight. Most days my hair matches my mood and I feel that says a lot about me. I see Bree as a way to be creative and I don't think I've de about to do that if I were relaxed.

What advice would you give to a newbie to help her along her natural hair journey?
Always carry a little kit with you. Bobby pins, hair combs, and hair ties are your best friend. Aside for that I'd have to say do what's best for you. Listen to hair and don't stress. Find what works for your lifestyle and schedule and go from there. It doesn't have to be complicated if you keep things simple. If you ever get bored play around with your hair. There are so many options that you have and there are so many people you can turn to. This isn't something you have to go through alone. If you find somewhere along the way, being natural isn't for you don't feel guilty. It's your hair, it's your life but more importantly, it's just hair.


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10/2/11

Carrega's Corner: Hair Looks

By: Christina Carrega


Head bands, clips, cloth bands, bows and decorative pins.

Hair accessories are the new thing I've decided to invest in when it comes to sprucing up my loose double strand twist hairstyle for the Fall.

All summer I threw my hair in, what I've come to realize is, a boring black banana clip because my locks have rapidly grown. I started taking B12, Vitamin D, B6 and a multi-vitamin as recommended by my doctor and not only has my hair grown, my nails are stronger and I have more energy to deal with my 11 hour work days.

Anyway..

I went shopping, in the mall, for the first time in months and fell in love with Ann Taylor Loft's hair accessories. They were goregous, glamorous and glitzy.

I wore my first head band over the weekend and it added to my face as well as giving my curls the chance to be loose for once. It also made me realize that I don't have to wear earrings and a necklace all the time now i can do either/or.

What other hair accessories would you recommend?


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The Benefits of Black Tea


The Black Tea we drink deserves some more credit. Black Tea is not only rich in antioxidants, but it's also great for our hair, skin and health. Black tea contains ten times more antioxidants than found in fruits & vegetables. Since Black Tea comes from the same Camellia Sinensis plant as does all tea, we can expect it to have similar benefits like green & white teas. A lot of research has been done on the health benefits of green tea. Due to this reason, many consider green tea to be more beneficial than Black Tea. However, this isn't necessarily so. Recent studies have shown that there are a number of benefits of Black Tea. Some of the health benefits of Black Tea are as follows: 
  • Black Tea is specially useful for those suffering from diabetes, as it's known to lower the level of glucose in the blood. 
  • Black Tea is said to help one cope with stress better by controlling the level of hormones in the body. 
  • Black Tea expands the air passages. Hence, it facilitates breathing in those who suffer from asthma. 
  • Black Tea increases metabolism & helps burn fat faster. 
  • Black Tea is known to have anti-aging properties. 
Benefits of Black Tea for Hair:
  • Contains more caffeine than a cup of coffee, which caffeine inhibits DHT (a hormone that is responsible for hair loss). 
  • Known to reduce shedding & breakage 
  • Can increase the thickness of your hair 
  • Can darken the hair or enhance natural highlights
  • Can add shine, luster and softness to the hair
If you are considering incorporating Black Tea into your daily regimen, here's a few starters:
  • Use Black Tea as a Herbal Rinse. Apply Rinse after shampooing, rub into scalp & leave in. Some naturals do a Final Rinse. Some move on to applying Leave-In. It's up to you. 
  • Add Black Tea to your ACV Rinses, or even substitute the ACV Rinse with the Black Tea Rinse. 
  • Add some Black Tea to your daily moisturizers.
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The Art of Saving Money with Homemade Recipes


I know my project junkies will agree -- you can spend hundreds of dollars testing out numerous products available on the market, many of which are supposedly intended for natural hair use. However, breaking the bank shouldn't be a necessity for healthy, strong natural hair. I know one of the big factors for me going natural was to actual save money -- no more having to take weekly trips to the salon, no more having to buy expensive packs of Remy hair.. goodbye to all of that. I'll admit.. I've spent a few bucks here & there purchasing new products to try, but usually all my key ingredients needed for my hair are right in my own kitchen. 

Creating your own hair recipes not only keeps money in your pocket, but it allows for a more intimate relationship with your hair. You now gain a much better insight as to what your hair craves, prefers or rejects with your at-home experiments. When I'm bored, I like to get creative. So I want to share with you ladies a few tips to finding your own perfect hair concoctions:
  • Don't mix too many things at once. I personally like the start with simple recipes. This way it's much easier to determine what works & what doesn't when your ingredient list is limited. 
  • Try starting out with two-ingredient mixes until you find a mix that works well on your hair. When I first went natural, I already had two ingredients I felt could get me started along my natural hair journey: Water + EVOO. I mixed the two & used it until my spritz bottle was done. I learned my hair loved both ingredients, so in my next batch I added a new ingredient: Argan Oil. If you find a mix that works great on your hair, continue using it. If it's just okay, retry with a new ingredient until you reach perfection. 
  • If there's a particular ingredient that you find always works well on your hair, make it a staple to your hair recipes, adding it as a standard part of all your recipes. For me, I try to incorporate EVOO into anything that touches my hair since my hair loves it so much. 
  • Alternate the way you apply the mixes to your hair. This is how I figure what recipes work best on dry hair and which ones work best on wet hair. Once again it's a game of trial & error until you find something that works best for you. 
  • Take note of what works for you & how it worked. Some recipes may be better for deep conditioning while others make great for clarifying. 
  • Do your research! If you're hectic about putting bananas in your hair, make use of resources available to you before doing so. This was how I found out that using banana baby food works just as well as using a regular banana. Search through blogs & forums for your particular ingredients. You'll find others who have probably tried the same type of recipe share their success or horror stories. 
  • Take a trip to your local grocery store & explore! I don't think anyone gets as excited as I do now whenever I pass a Whole Foods or a GNC. I encourage you all to experiment with essential oils and powders that you wouldn't normally find at your beauty supply or drug stores. 
So remember, a recipe failure is a good thing -- it's just your hair letting you know that it doesn't respond well to certain ingredients. The worst thing that can happen is you'll need to rewash your hair, so I encourage you all to get creative!

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9/28/11

The Benefits of Bananas for Hair


I did my first banana DC this week using banana baby food + EVOO + honey. Left it on for a couple of hours and when I rinsed it out I was totally amazed at just how awesome my hair felt. It had an awesome shine to it, felt soft as ever and added volume to my hair. Needless to say, I'm definitely going to be doing this DC biweekly. I wanted to share with you ladies the benefits of using bananas for the hair. I know when I first became natural I saw a lot of recipes that included using a banana but never had a full understanding of why.

Bananas are rich in potassium, natural oils, carbohydrates and vitamins that help in softening the hair and protects the hair's natural elasticity preventing split ends and breakage. Bananas when used for hair has a number of benefits such as it creates manageability, shine, growth and controls dandruff. These are simply the best for hair and the scalp.

Bananas enhance the strength, endurance and shine of the hair. Bananas are full of vitamins and is a number one ingredient for strengthening and volumizing the hair. It helps in repairing dry and sun-damaged hair. The damages that are caused to the hair by exposure to the dirt, pollution and other environmental toxins can be treated with the banana mask. It helps in protecting the hair from further damage. The vitamin B helps in the prevention of split ends. The type of hair that is suitable for this treatment are dry hair, dyed hair and for hair after perm. It also serves as an excellent treatment for addressing the problem of dandruff and is helpful in retaining moisture on your scalp.

What are some hair recipes you do that include bananas? 


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Protective Style Regimen for the Fall


I decided instead of wearing my Beshe lacefront wig as my Protective Style for the Fall, I was going to get Senegalese Twist instead. I won't be getting those twist until November or whenever the real cold weather kicks in--which ever happens first. Until then I figured I'd just rock out with my Twist Outs, playing around with pinning the sides down occasionally.

A few days ago, I decided to see if my hair was long enough to finally try the Bantu Knots. I had already stocked up on bobby pins so I figured I had nothing to lose. A good 15 or so bobby pins later, I had managed my first bantu knots. The next morning as soon as I woke up I took out the bobby pins & took out the knots and fell in love. The bantu knot out make my hair much fuller!

Last week I went about nearly 14 days without washing my hair. The only product I used was DIY Haircare's Mango & Apricot Hair & Body Butter & it didn't weigh down my hair or making it feel greasy. It was moisturized at all times so I just kept going each day without washing. I figured I could start training my hair for my Senegalese Twist as I don't be washing it as often either.

Nonetheless, until November hits I've figured out my whole Protective Style Regimen for the Fall:
  • Co-wash + DC Weekly. Co-wash with Avalon Organics Strengthening Peppermint Conditioner followed by a Banana DC (1 sm. jar of Banana Baby Food + 1-2 Tbsp. EVOO + 1 Tbsp. Honey) that I leave in for about 3-4 hours. 
  • Two Strand Twist for 3 Days. Usually starting on Sundays, right after rinsing out the DC & applying my leave in & oils, I will use my DIY Haircare Butter & two strand twist on soaking wet hair. Twist out each morning. Re-twist at night using the DIY Haircare Butter. 
  • Hot Oil Massage Weekly. Usually will combine some of my oils but will always include Eucalyptus oil in the mixture. Microwave for about 11 seconds & massage on my scalp. 
  • Bantu Knots for 3 Days. After three consecutive days of wearing twist outs, my curls are pretty stretched. So for the next three days, I have fuller bantu knot outs. I have some nights where I just put on my satin scarf & fluff my hair out the next day.
  • Shampoo monthly. Pre-poo regimen followed by shampooing with Avalon Organics Clarifying Lemon Shampoo & DC with the conditioner + oils that I leave in for about 3-4 hours. 


What Protective Style are you wearing & what's your Fall Regimen?

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9/27/11

Carrega's Corner: Soro.. No?

By: Christina Carrega


Alpha, Beta, Kappa, Sigma, AKA, Zeta, Delta the list goes on with the affiliations of fraternities and sororities known nationwide and throughout every college campus. These organizations represent the integrity and pride of whatever their founders set out for them. Unfortunately, throughout the 100 some-odd years that have passed by, the reputations from these organizations have been more negative than positive with scandalous activities that have been heavily publicized. Its unfortunate for the men and women who spend countless days, hours, months, and years strutting the streets in their proud colors and are really about the message their organization presents.

With that being said.

In blank stare news:

Have any of you ever thought in a million years that there is such thing as a HAIR SORORITY?????

Like really, what could possibly be the requirements these woman to look for, for a potential Phi Nappa Kappa. Yes, those are the "Greek" letters that represent this sorority, no joke.

I can't see secluding myself from another woman just because she decided to use her First Amendment right to perm or process her hair in a way that I chose not to.

Needless to say, this "organization" does exist and they have a good amount of followers on Facebook and have a Natural Hairshow in Houston coming up in December. Nope, I will not give you the dates, sorry.

Up until a few weeks ago if you went to their page for this event, there was a section called, "Reasons to Go" and one of their many reasons was, "you want the benefits of being part of a big group who has pledged to adhere to a higher level of integrity."

I'm sorry, but I don't feel that being a natural means you can put your nose up to others and think you're better than the next woman.

I just don't believe that.

Its not like if I have a job interview and the human resource woman is a natural, that she would pick me over a more qualified woman because she isn't a natural. It's foolishness. Unless you can get some percentage off of hair products for joining this group then what's the point.

I just think that whoever organized this got lost with his or hers intentions.

If the opportunity arose for you to join such a group, would you?


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9/24/11

DIY Haircare Hair & Body Butter Giveaway Winner!


Congratulations to our lucky winner! Thank you all for entering this Giveaway!
Winner was selected randomly using Random.org. 
& thank you again to the lovely Jarmelia over at DIY Hair Care for having such wonderful products!
Brandy has 48 hours to email ItsAPartyOverHair@gmail.com with your shipping information! 
Stay tuned for the next Giveaway!

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9/23/11

Curly Nikki's NYC Meetup 2011!


Curly Nikki is coming to NYC on Thursday October 20th! So mark it in your calendar. 
To RSVP, click HERE! I look forward to seeing a lot of you ladies there!

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Natural Hair Lingo

By: Kydee Williams


My friend once told me “being natural is like being in a sorority, we are all sisters in our secret society.” Even though the journey to go natural is no secret (the evidence is right on top of our heads), and some may not want to consider their natural hair journey as being in a sorority, I do believe that naturals have their own little culture where we empower, we learn and we take the necessary steps towards healthy hair.

However maybe my friend was on to something.

One of the first steps in understanding what it means to be Natural is to learn the “Natural Hair Lingo.” Yes, its true Naturals have their own dictionary. If you are not natural or a beginner to the natural movement, words such as APL (Arm Pit Length) or SLS (Sodium Lauryl Sulfate) may be a bit confusing.

Before I went natural, I remember spending countless hours trying to figure out what in the world was a TWA…a plane? Now when someone mentions BC or HIH (Hand in Hair: a “disease” that causes naturals to always have their hand in their hair) I know exactly what they are talking about. Natural Hair Lingo is so exclusive yet its one of the perks that makes natural hair exciting. It gives naturals the chance to communicate our experiences to one another in a positive light.

Are you still confused as to what certain “Natural Hair Lingo” or words mean? 

If so which ones? Have you created some words of your own?

For more Natural Hair Lingo, click HERE

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You Are Not Alone

By: Kydee Williams


Before I went natural I was lost. I had a head full of damaged hair and I was too ashamed to even ask for help because I believed no one would understand. After I was exposed to the wonders of natural hair blogs, Youtube and Tumblr I witnessed a sea of woman who were extremely open about their hair journeys and the horrible mistakes they made. I saw women with short hair like mine and long hair like I aspired mines to be. I watched numerous videos of ladies shaving their hair off and rocking baldheads or Caesars. These brave individuals were not making video blogs of their big chops or taking pictures of their monthly hair growth only for themselves. They were doing it to encourage and restore faith in Natural Hair Growth! I finally trusted that I was not alone. I look at women with a head full of curly kinks that are as fierce as they want to be and I am INSPIRED!

What form of inspiration keeps you going through your Natural Journey? Was there ever a point where you felt you had no one to talk to about the ups and downs of your natural hair? 


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9/21/11

DIY Hair Care Apricot Mango Extra Rich Hair & Body Review + Giveaway



Size & Price                              
Juicy Peach; 4 oz, $5.75 or 8 oz, $9.75 via DIY Hair Care

Ingredients                                
Unrefined Shea Butter, Mango Butter, Apricot Kernel Oil, Safflower Oil, Olive Oil & Vitamin E

Product Claims                         
This butter is ideal for dry skin and hair in need of deep moisture and damage protection. As always, our butters are never greasy and formulated to sink right into your hair and skin.
  • Mango Butter: Moisturizes dry skin and hair, heals broken skin, fights off fine lines and wrinkles, protects against the suns UV rays
  • Apricot Kernel Oil: Rich in vitamins A & E, helps skin & hair retain elasticity, moisturizing, nourishing and revitalizing
  • Safflower Oil: Helps seal in moisture and sooth dry itchy skin, moisturizes and strengthens dry hair
Suggested Use
Use for hair & body.

The Verdict                                
I have the Juicy Peach & absolutely love the smell of it. It reminds me of this homemade peach oatmeal I've been craving since I had it at this bed & breakfast in PA years ago. Nonetheless, it's a wonderful smell. I use it for both my hair & skin. It leaves my skin glowing. It adds a beautiful shine without having that heavy feel like a lot butters I've dealt with in the past. I love using this immediately out the shower, especially in combo with DIY Hair Care Juniper Breeze Shampoo Body & Hair Bar. As far as hair wise, this has replaced my Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Conditioning Milk. Usually by day two or three of using the Shea Moisture my hair will start to feel sticky so I would feel the need to wash it immediately. With this product, there's never a sticky, heavy feel. I use this nightly whether I'm doing my bantu knots or two strand twist to seal my ends. When I take them out in the morning, my hair not only is moisturized, but it's incredibly soft.

Recommend This?                   
Yes! I think this is the perfect product to have especially for the cold months approaching. It will leave your skin feeling incredible moisturized without the heavy feel. And I'd definitely recommend it for your hair. Anyone that loves using butters, this is definitely one to use. It will have your hair feeling amazingly soft & moisturized. 


So with that being said, time for another Giveaway! 


The lovely Jarmelia sent me an extra 4 oz Unscented DIY Hair Apricot Mango Extra Rich Hair & Body Butter to give out to one lucky winner (within the US). The rules are simple:


1. Must be subscribed to Party Over Hair blog. 


2. After reading this review, leave a comment with your name &/or Twitter name, email address & a comment regarding this product review.

Simple, right? Contest will end at 7AM EST on Saturday September 24, 2011. Winner will be chosen at random using random.org.

Be sure to check out all of Jarmelia's great products at DIY Hair Care. Good luck ladies!


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Oil Based & Water Based Moisturizers


There are two different types of moisturizers one should consider when looking for products: oil based and water based.

Whereas oil based moisturizers coat the hair shaft, as well as seals in moisture, water based moisturizers penetrate the hair shaft. In order to use either moisturizer effectively, will must always apply your water based moisturizer first then the oil based moisturizer. Think, water first then oil.

Oils do not moisturize your hair effectively. Instead, they seal moisture in (and out) of your hair. They should only be used for sealing moisture, as well as adding shine to hair. One way of combating dryness is using a penetrating moisturizer, such as coconut oil. Coconut oil is the only oil that penetrates the hair shaft; other oils only coat it. EVCO can be used as a daily moisturizer, as well as a water based moisturizer.

The best way of knowing if your product is water based or not is to check the ingredients. If water (aqua) is the first listed ingredient then that product is water based. If water is listed, but not first -- it's not a water based product. Keep in mind, water based moisturizers penetrate the hair shaft.

Some water based moisturizers you can try:
  • Giovanni Direct Leave In (My favorite) 
  • Cantu Shea Butter Leave In 
  • Jane Carter Revitalizing Leave In 
What oil and water based moisturizers do you use? 

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5 Hair Products That Saved My Life When I BCed


It seems like as each day passes, more & more ladies are joining the natural hair community and going through with their Big Chop. I've been giving some tips to those newly naturals via Twitter & other hair forums, but I figured it would just be best to write up a post of the products that definitely helped me through the first few months of my TWA. I tried to keep my regimen as simple as possible so I could really learn about my hair. It wasn't until my fifth month in of being natural that I started experimenting with more products & oils. So below are the 5 products that I still use that just helped me deal with that dry hair that some may experience when first going natural:
  • Extra Virgin Olive Oil - This was the first oil I started using on my hair mainly because it was easily accessible -- it's always in my kitchen. I mixed this with some purified water & had created my first spritz. My hair absolutely loves EVOO & it works absolutely wonderful for maintaining moisture. 
  • Giovanni Direct Leave-In Conditioner - I absolutely love this product. This product leaves my hair feelings amazingly soft & moisturized. Check out the product review HERE
  • Aussie Moist Conditioner - This was the only conditioner I used for the first five months of my natural hair journey. Although it does contain silicones (Bis-Aminopropyl Dimethicone), this conditioner helped me combat my extremely dry hair. During the spring & summer months, I'd cowash daily with the Aussie Moist & my hair truly appreciated it. Check out the product review HERE
  • Eco Styler Olive Oil Styling Gel - Although, I'm not a big fan of this product nowadays (only use it only my edges now) -- it definitely came in handy when I had my TWA. I would apply this last on my wash & goes & it would definitely make my curls pop. I also loved it because it helped with shrinkage. Check out the product review HERE
  • Shea Moisture Coconut & Hibiscus Curl & Style Conditioning Milk - This product was my go to when I decided to start trying out two strand twist. I'd use the Conditioning Milk to moisturize my two or three day hair. This would keep my hair moisturized for hours & was definitely my savior during those dry summer months that just passed. Check out the product review HERE
What are some hair products you use that have 'saved' your life? 


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Featured Blogger: Jamila of The Fabulous & Frugal

The lovely Jamila featured me on her site The Fabulous & Frugal a couple of days ago, which you can check out HERE. I've been a big fan of her site since I've started my natural hair journey back in April & just wanted to feature her on Party Over Hair, so without further adieu I present to you ladies, Jamila! 


I absolutely love your blog, For The Fabulous & Frugal. It's a great blog for any naturals in college. How long has For The Fabulous & Frugal been up and what's the story behind it?
I started the blog in 2009, about 6 months after I did my Big Chop. I was getting lot of questions from people about my hair-- what products I used, what was my routine, etc-- so I decided to compile the little knowledge I had into a blog, so I could refer people to it. It soon blossomed into a pretty serious hobby-- people started sending me emails and I basically adopted the attitude, "I do the research so you don't have to." I felt like there was this whole world of knowledge about natural hair out there that I was so curious about, so I learned a lot by spending [probably way too much] time browsing the internet (read: obsessing over CurlyNikki.com). I soon discovered that a lot of the resources out there for natural hair were targeted towards women with substantial buget and time to take care of their hair. As an (at the time) college student, my routine had to be simile and my budget had to be small. Thus: College Curlies: A place for the fabulous and frugal.

Have you always been natural, or did you BC/Transition?
I transitioned for about 10 months before doing a BC. I hadn't actually planned on doing a Big Chop-- I wanted to stop getting relaxers to save money, and figured I'd get my hair straightened at a salon every few weeks instead. Once I started to feel my natural curls growing in, I got curious about what they'd look like, and decided to take a leap of faith and see. I'm so glad I did!


What type of hair regimen do you mostly follow -- Traditional, Natural or Ayurvedic? And, what is your current regimen?
I guess it's somewhere between traditional and natural. (I'd love to try an Ayurvedic regimen, but just haven't gotten around to it). I co-wash my hair twice a week, and shampoo every two weeks. I use whatever leave-in conditioner suits my fancy at the moment, and coconut oil and shea butter to seal.I twist or bantu knot my hair to style, and wear twist-out styles in between [co]wash sessions. Here's more on my regimen.

What is one of your favorite homemade hair recipes?
I am all about my at home deep conditioner recipe. I used to DC my hair every week, but nowadays it's closer to once a month. I use any cheapie conditioner (Aussie Moist and Hello Hydration are my best friends), honey, and oils (EVOO and coconut). I pop it in the microwave for about 25 seconds to melt it all together, stir, and apply to freshy washed hair. I leave it on with a shower cap for 30 minutes to two hours, and my hair is happy!


What are your favorite products or brands?
I love Herbal Essences conditioners. They smell great, work wonders for detangling, and are super inexpensive. When I have the budget for it, I'm also totally in love with Oyin Handmade products. I'm all about the way they do their business, and the products are delicious and really not that pricey. Other than that, I'm not married to any particular brand or product. I use what works for me and what's cheap.

Any advice you'd get to those that are transitioning or newly natural?
Those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. Love your hair because it's yours. And at the end of the day,it's just hair. Do you.


Where can we find you?
Twitter: @JamilaReddy
Email: CollegeCurlies@gmail.com
Blog: CollegeCurlies.blogspot.com

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9/19/11

What's Causing That Dry, Itchy Scalp?


All commercially manufactured hair products contain preservatives to prevent the growth of bacteria and fungi, as well as to lengthen their shelf life. Many of these preservatives can also be the cause of dry, itchy scalp and skin. Look out for some of the following preservatives that are known to cause skin irritation:
  • Benzyl alcohol 
  • Imidazolidinyl urea 
  • Diazolidinyl urea 
  • Sodium hydroxylmethylgycinate 
  • Methyl, Propyl, Butyl and Ethyl parabens 
  • Phenoxyethanol 
  • DMDM hydantoin 
  • Quaternium-15 
  • Methylisothiazolinone 
Some common detergents in shampoos that are known to cause dry, itchy scalp:
  • Sodium lauryl/laureth sulfate 
  • Cocoamide DEA, TEA or MEA 
  • Cocamidopropyl betaine 
Aside from preservatives and detergents, there are many other ingredients in hair products that can cause skin problems for some of us--even natural, edible ingredients can be irritating. This is a short list of common irritants:
  • Fragrances/perfumes 
  • Propylene glycol (PG) 
  • Polyethylene glycol (PEG) 
  • Polyquaternium(s) 
  • Artificial colorings 
  • Hair dyes 
  • Herbal extracts 
  • Essential Oils 
  • Henna 
  • Acids (ie. Salicylic acid, acetic acid) 
  • Proteins, hydrolyzed proteins, amino acids, peptides & plant starch
Have you experienced dry or itchy scalp with any of the detergents listed above? 


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Hair Tip of the Day: #12

Use mayonnaise to restore vitality and sheen to your strands.


A mayonnaise hair treatment is an effective hair conditioner that can help restore vitality and sheen to your hair. It contains oil, vinegar and egg yolk, which are all natural conditioners and cleansers that help in adding luster and shine to the hair. Mayonnaise is especially recommended for dry and overly damaged hair.

Simply apply a liberal coat of mayonnaise on your hair, making sure to cover strands from the root to the tips. Leave on for at least a half hour, then wash normally.

via NaturallyCurly

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Protective Style: Janelle Monae Inspired Updo!


The lovely Charnelle Ashlee (@Fashionably_l8) sent me over some lovely pictures of her Protective Style inspired by the lovely Janelle Monae. She got her lovely style done at:

Amina Hair Braiding 
1246 Springfield Ave 
Irvington NJ

I've posted more pictures of this beautiful style on the Tumblr which can be found HERE. You can submit your Protective Styles to Party Over Hair via Tumblr, Facebook,  Twitter or Email!

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9/17/11

Hair Q&A: Senegalese Twist vs. Kinky Twist


Q: What's the difference between Kinky Twist & Senegalese Twists?

A: For the most part Kinky Twist & Senegalese Twist are the same thing. Senegalese Twist are usually done with a straighter braid hair than that of the Kinky Twist & are often smaller. The twists are more silky-looking and are usually worn long. Kinky twist are done with kinky braid hair and are usually larger in size than Senegalese. They are also set on perm rods and dipped in hot water to get the curly look on the ends. The Senegalese Twists can be left loose on the ends or burned to a point. Both are really pretty and it really just depends on what you're going for.

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My Protective Style Update


Honestly, I probably should have never purchased the Beshe in the 1B/30. After the first day of wearing it, I started to hate it. I decided to test it out for a full day -- had to record some footage for an upcoming project & then meet up with more clients. I got some nice compliments & one of my Asian friends thought it was my actual hair. "Your hair has been growing more and more each time I've seen you, so I thought it honestly grew that much.." were her exact words. Nonetheless, it doesn't feel like me. I thought if I purchased the Beshe 1 I'd feel a little better -- but I honestly, just don't feel comfortable wearing a lacefont out, especially with the wind blowing. I made it look as realistic as possible, but in the end.. I hated it.

So, I've done my research & decided I will be getting Senegalese Twist in a few weeks. I had to do some research to figure out what was really the difference between them & Kinky Twist. I will doing a post shortly to follow this. Until then, I absolutely love how DIY's Haircare Mango Apricot Hair & Body Butter has been keeping my hair moisturized so I'll be rocking my Twist Outs for a few more weeks. I'll probably be experimenting with more turbans & beanies as I went into Target & fell in love with their large selection of scarves! Nonetheless, I will keep you posted.

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